Comments on: Hate, Fear And The ‘I’m Not Good Enough’ Problem http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/ Finding the quickest route from where you are to where you want to be. Sat, 10 Apr 2010 07:50:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Rob McPhillips http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/#comment-633 Rob McPhillips Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:37:07 +0000 http://youremotionalgps.com/?p=535#comment-633 True Debbie. I remember a quote which relates a little to what you say 'What others think of you, is none of your business.' Exactly Ruth. If we only trusted ourselves we'd never have a problem. The only problems we have are because we trust what others say over what we know deep down. Thanks Geoffrey and Esther. True Debbie. I remember a quote which relates a little to what you say ‘What others think of you, is none of your business.’

Exactly Ruth. If we only trusted ourselves we’d never have a problem. The only problems we have are because we trust what others say over what we know deep down.

Thanks Geoffrey and Esther.

]]> By: esther http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/#comment-630 esther Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:16:07 +0000 http://youremotionalgps.com/?p=535#comment-630 Thanks for sending these facts about life.they're real good and help a lot. Esther, Ghana. Thanks for sending these facts about life.they’re real good and help a lot.
Esther,
Ghana.

]]> By: Geoffrey http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/#comment-629 Geoffrey Thu, 15 Oct 2009 07:23:36 +0000 http://youremotionalgps.com/?p=535#comment-629 i love the fact that we have some people some where to help us learn to live happily. Thanks so much, continue sending me more Geoffrey Bamwanga Mbarara university of science and technology p.o.box.1410, Mbarara ,Uganda i love the fact that we have some people some where to help us learn to live happily.
Thanks so much,
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]]> By: Ruth http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/#comment-627 Ruth Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:35:14 +0000 http://youremotionalgps.com/?p=535#comment-627 I love fact that we have this inbuilt mechanism that reflects back to us like a mirror through negative feelings those areas we must work on if we are to be peaceful. What is even more beautiful is that we can convince others that all is OK but never ourselves (if we really listen that is) and so true resolution of our problems is felt deep, deep inside and as you say honesty (with ourselves) is the quickest way to this - not always a great view in the morror though! Thanks Rob. I love fact that we have this inbuilt mechanism that reflects back to us like a mirror through negative feelings those areas we must work on if we are to be peaceful. What is even more beautiful is that we can convince others that all is OK but never ourselves (if we really listen that is) and so true resolution of our problems is felt deep, deep inside and as you say honesty (with ourselves) is the quickest way to this – not always a great view in the morror though! Thanks Rob.

]]> By: Debbie Bills http://youremotionalgps.com/hate-fear-and-the-im-not-good-enough-problem/#comment-626 Debbie Bills Tue, 13 Oct 2009 17:02:36 +0000 http://youremotionalgps.com/?p=535#comment-626 People that do the attacking first are usually the ones that feel inadequate and this is there way of bring others down to there level or below. I feel bad, so let me make someone else feel even worse and I'll feel better. In order for them not to take your happiness from you, you must look at the attackers action and why their behavior is the way it is. You can only feel sad for them who are out to hurt others, because they lack in selfesteem, which in turn makes them feel inadequate. Always remember not to take others action personal. Your reaction to there actions is the key. People that do the attacking first are usually the ones that feel inadequate and this is there way of bring others down to there level or below. I feel bad, so let me make someone else feel even worse and I’ll feel better. In order for them not to take your happiness from you, you must look at the attackers action and why their behavior is the way it is. You can only feel sad for them who are out to hurt others, because they lack in selfesteem, which in turn makes them feel inadequate. Always remember not to take others action personal. Your reaction to there actions is the key.

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